Actually, It's OK to Disagree. Here Are 5 Ways We Can Argue Better

Actually, It's OK to Disagree. Here Are 5 Ways We Can Argue Better

Argument is everywhere. From the kitchen table to the boardroom to the highest echelons of power, we all use argument to persuade, investigate new ideas, and make collective decisions.


Unfortunately, we often fail to consider the ethics of arguing. This makes it perilously easy to mistreat others — a critical concern in personal relationships, workplace decision-making and political deliberation.


The Norms of Argument


Everyone understands there are basic norms we should follow when arguing.


Logic and commonsense dictate that, when deliberating with others, we should be open to their views. We should listen carefully and try to understand their reasoning. And while we can’t all be Socrates, we should do our best to respond to their thoughts with clear, rational and relevant arguments.


Since the time of Plato, these norms have been defended on what philosophers call “epistemic” grounds. This means the norms are valuable because they promote knowledge, insight and self-understanding.


What “critical thinking” is to internal thought processes, these “norms of argument” are to interpersonal discussion and deliberation.


Why ‘Ethical’ Arguing Is Important


In a recent article, I contend that these norms of argument are also morally important.


Sometimes this is obvious. For exam ..

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